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Lyra 4.75 months

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Lyra is the wierdest puppy I’ve ever raised.  Certainly she is helping me understand what is meant by a “fear period,” because her ups and downs are much more pronounced than what I’ve seen in my other dogs.

In a two week span, she’s gone from being highly social, to worried about people, to social – most of the time.  Every fifth person still causes her concern for absolutely no reason that I can detect.  She’s not having a meltdown but definitely showing some glitches in her self confidence.  I see the same with places and things; the world is no longer her oyster.  My best guess is that Lyra looked around and realized that there could be threats out there.  Night exacerbates the issue, but even in bright daylight she can have weird moments.  I don’t “do” anything about these moments except make sure she’s not overwhelmed.  If she vocalized in any way, I’d remove her from the situation, but mostly she just flattens her ears and skulks around.  I give her time to adjust, and if she doesn’t become comfortable with the object of concern in a short period of time (30 seconds or so) then I try to move her a little further away or just leave the area altogether.  The people worries are much more pronounced than the environmental ones.

Yesterday I took her out for some work in the neighborhood, and she was terrific!  Happy and engaged; curious about the environment but very comfortable working for me too.  Then today I took her to a public garden.  She was happy to explore, but her ears weren’t consistently up, and her ears are a pretty good barometer of happiness.  She did lead the way through the garden, and after walking on the paths for five or ten minutes, we left.  We’ll see if she’s better next time.  Needless to say, any plans I may have had for attention work were wiped out.    Some days she cannot do anything in public; I’m happy just to get her ears up and her tail wagging.

In direct contradiction to her unsureness with random people, places and things, she’s starting to show me some hardness at home, which is very much welcome.  Today when I asked her to give a toy back, she said “no”.   It wasn’t a loud no, but she knew what I wanted and she didn’t give it up.  I’m thrilled!  Someday I’ll have her full cooperation, but I want to earn that cooperation, not recieve it because she doesn’t have the personal strength to argue with me.   It’s hard to have a true teammate unless you are very close to each other in power.  I want 51% of the power and 49% in Lyra; this is what I have with Cisu, Juno and Raika, and it is a joy to work any of them.  Right now I have too much power with Lyra ( to be expected with a puppy), so I’m glad to see her developing more core strength.    I happen to like a dog that has opinions and gives me a little grief, because I think it makes for a much stronger competition dog in the long run.  It’s good if I have to earn Lyra’s cooperation instead of getting it because she is emotionally weak inside.  It’s also an absolute necessity in a good Schutzhund dog, and who knows if we’ll pursue that.  I’d like it to be an option anyway.

I adore her.  I find her ups and downs fascinating, and trying to find the right combination of motivators is a challenge.  Right now I’m working on getting her to  run to her platform (as opposed to trotting), so we’ll see what it takes to get her there.

The Twelve Days of Christmas – (puppy home and garden version)

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On the First day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
A Poopee in the Laundry

On the Second day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Two Traumatized sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

On the Third day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

On the Fourth day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the laundry

On the Fifth day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house.
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

On the Sixth day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Six Mangled Stockings
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house.
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

On the Seventh day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Seven Sleepless Nights
Six Mangled Stockings
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house.
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a poopee in the laundry

On the Eighth day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Eight Impressive Planting Holes
Seven Sleepless Nights
Six Mangled Stockings
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house.
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry.

On the Ninth day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Nine Filthy windows
Eight Impressive Planting Holes
Seven Sleepless Nights
Six Mangled stockings
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

On the Tenth day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Ten Unwanted Soaker Hoses
Nine Filthy windows
Eight Impressive Planting Holes
Seven Sleepless Nights
Six Mangled Stockings
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house.
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

On the Eleventh day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Eleven Customized Shoes
Ten Unwanted Soaker Hoses
Nine Filthy windows
Eight Impressive Planting Holes
Seven Sleepless Nights
Six Mangled Stockings
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house.
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

On the Twelfth day of Christmas
my puppy gave to me:
Twelve Dead Plants
Eleven Customized Shoes
Ten Unwanted Soaker Hoses
Nine Filthy windows
Eight Impressive Planting Holes
Seven Sleepless Nights
Six Mangled Stockings
Five Puddles of Pee.  In the house.
Four Broken Ornaments
Three Emptied Wastebaskets
Two Traumatized Sheep
and a Poopee in the Laundry

Lyra 4.5 months – I Want My Good Puppy Back

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Right now, Lyra has about one great session for every three mediocre ones.  There seem to be several things going on.

For starters, she’s teething.  I think that makes her feel a little off.

She is also in something of a fear period.  I can’t work her in the dark because she thinks the boogey men come out after dark.  I have tried working her through that,  but recently I realized that she needs to sit and stare into the dark while I give her the occasional cookie.

Dogs barking in the distance upset her and critters rattling in the bushes are to be watched carefully.

Smells are…fascinating.  It feel like she’s just disovered how fabulous her nose really is, and she can’t get it off the ground.

Until yesterday, I was trying to work “over” these things.  That means trying to be more exciting than what is out there.  But then I realized that I was working too hard….it’s not my job to get more and more interesting when she’s distracted.  My job is to be interesting when she shows the interest and ability to work.  If I start begging, pleading or demanding, I’ve reversed our roles and I’ll be begging or demanding for life, so last night I vowed to relax and let her work through it herself.

What a difference!  After ten minutes of Lyra sniffing, worrying and visiting, I started to see glimmers of my old puppy.  We spent about 25 minutes together, which was just enough to remind me of what I tell other people all of the time; “Patience, grasshopper.”

Today we had a really really great training session. Where’s the video camera when you need it?

No way to know what the next session might look like, and in my head I know it doesn’t matter.  I just needed my head to remind my heart.

Lyra 4.5 months – a bit of precision work and introduction to the stick

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Today I removed two of Lyra’s teeth playing tug.  That second tooth forced me to admit that I need to put the toy away.  Regretfully.  What can I say; besides the fact that I have a very strong preference for training with toys, the other reality is that Lyra’s food drive is still minimal, and during teething we are going to be restricted to the picky details as opposed to the high intensity stuff that I prefer.

I also decided that I need to get a little more serious about doing work that would allow Lyra to work in protection, should I decide to go that route in the future.  For starters, I need to buy a new clatter stick; mine has lost it’s ability to clatter. And I need to start desensitizing her.  She’d probaby be fine if she first saw the stick as an adult, but why take a chance?  The ability to tolerate a stick, or (even better) to associate it with the fun of biting, is important, and best not left to chance.  I’m a little sorry I didn’t start this when she could still play tug – it’s more logical to associate the stick with bitework than with pieces of food that she’s lukewarm about.

Here’s today’s lesson.  I cut out the middle which was “more of the same”.  I trained for eight minutes total.

In this video I cover:  precision heeling, precision fronts, the down/recall hand signals, go outs, and a bit of drive building for food.

What is Possible?

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Recently I heard an interview with a very well known competitor/trainer.  He said “positive training works with dolphins…..it is not possible to train a dog without physical contact; it’s a lie…”.

Physical contact means pain compliance.

My first thought was, “How egotistical is THAT?  If you can’t do it, no one can?”  Let’s call that my irritable reaction.

My irritation was soon replaced by sadness, however, because if positive reinforcement training is “not possible”, then what sane person would attempt it? If a “top trainer” ridicules the possibility, then the message to thousands of less experienced trainers is clear: do what is proven to work, regardless of the outcome for the dog, or the sport.  If a young trainer decides to attempt positive training anyway, the blatant ridicule, followed by subtle sabotage, will usually drive them away from the sport or into the hands of tradition soon enough.  It takes a strong and courageous person to do something that others say is impossible, and few individuals want to play the fool, especially if they are relative novices themselves.

If you want to be a successful competitor, the safest route is the known one.  Many of the most accomplished competitors have very little to offer outside of their method,  which often crams every dog into exactly the same hole they’ve been crammed into for thirty years.  Yes, these folks win.  If winning is the most important element for you, then it makes sense to go with what is proven to work.  But, when well regarded trainers or competitors state that a progressive method is “not possible”, you discourage innovation and set dog sports in the wrong direction.

Wouldn’t it be better to say, “In my experience, positive training does not work.”? That phrase opens up a place for dialogue and the possibility that you may be confronted with evidence, which might, over time, allow you to change your perspective and try something new.

If the world of today had been described to me thirty years ago, I would have been unable to process what I was hearing. I would have had no way to reconcile such unbelievable information with what I now know to be real and true.  The possibility of video telephones, computers, internet – I would have laughed at you.  If you had told me that athletes were breaking records that were considered physically impossible, that science had taken us inside of cells and DNA and into the very heart of what makes us human – I could not have heard you.  Big Science was a test tube baby, not Dolly the cloned sheep.

If you had told me that I could use food to train a dog; that a plastic toy called a clicker could help me with my training, that I could wait for a behavior to occur and then name it rather than creating each behavior… I would have made fun of the waste of time and the “stupidness” of it all.  I was young and opinionated.  I knew it all, and if I wasn’t doing it, then it wasn’t worth doing.

While it’s sad to see such a close minded attitude on a thirteen year old, it’s relatively harmless since no one is listening anyway, but coming from a well known trainer with excellent skills and insight to offer… it’s damaging and cause for great concern.

The world of today was NOT POSSIBLE just thirty years ago. Outside the realm of comprehension.  Yet it’s here, not only possible, but now reality.    So if the not possible can become reality, isn’t it better to try and stay away from absolutes in our thoughts and speech as much as we can? There are so many places to throw up barriers and argue that something is not possible.  Honestly, it makes me tired even thinking about it, which is why I have waited a while to broach this topic. The words that come out of our mouths frame the reality in our heads.  Close your mind to new possibilities and you are right, it will not happen for you.

I cannot predict where a changed mindset will take you, any more than I could have predicted that Dolly the Sheep was possible.  The possibilities suggest, however, that the dog/human relationship can be so much more than what tradition and prior experience may have led us to believe.

I made the change to positive training  techniques many years ago, but it was only two or three years ago,  when Cisu began failing in the ring,  that I made a complete change in philosophy to dog as partner rather than dog as subject.  I can’t wait to see what I’m doing in five years, because really, I’ve just begun to explore the avenues of possibility that are appearing in front of me, and they seem endless.   There is so much to learn.

Training is a journey, not a destination.  If you think you’ve arrived, you’ve already missed out.

Lyra – Working Through Fear

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Today’s blog post was supposed to be a video illustration on teaching a dog to “out” (let go) of a toy.

Lyra had other ideas.  She decided that my video assistant, Katie, was a potentially scary person, and playing with me and my silly toys was not as important as monitoring the lady with a camera in front of her face.

This post is now a video illustration of the problem, and I how I chose to address it.

I start by asking myself,  ”How great is the dog’s fear?”  In this case, Lyra’s fear is mild.  Most of the time she is not watching Katie – a very concerned dog would not take her eyes off of the fright inducing circumstance. Lyra is not alarm barking, growling, hiding behind me, or stopping motion to stare for seconds at a time.  She is curiosity sniffing the ground (not avoidance sniffing), and she able to function (albeit at a low level) with me and a toy.

Under these circumstances, I decided to ignore the issue and let Lyra figure out for herself that there was nothing to be concerned about.  I made no effort to hurry this process.   I do not introduce her to Katie – she does not need to meet Katie to understand that she is not a threat.  I do not encourage Katie to make friends.  Yes, that would make Lyra comfortable, and Lyra would see that Katie was a friendly, harmless person, but Lyra already knows that people who call to her are friendly and harmless.  She also knows that video cameras are harmless, when held by people she knows well (such as my husband).  Now she needs to learn that new people who stand and stare in her direction with cameras are also harmless.  THAT is the issue to be dealt with, not cheerful people calling her to visit while holding cameras. I want her to learn that staring strangers with video cameras are neutral people; nothing to worry about.  The way to learn that is to have neutral to positive experiences in the presence of such people.

If you change the interaction, then you’ve dealt with a NEW interaction, not the problem inducing one.    This might have value if the dog were completely over faced.  For example, if no one had ever videotaped Lyra, or if she were uncomfortable with people in general, then I would have treated this situation differently.

Let’s look at the tape:

5 sec:  Lyra moves sideways away from Katie while watching her.  This is my first indication that there is an issue.

11 sec: Lyra comes when I call her, but keeps her front end partially oriented towards Katie rather than coming into me directly.

25, 31, 33 and 36 sec:  Lyra moves towards me to engage with the toy, but sneaks quick peaks at Katie

36sec:  Lyra is offered the toy but she does not grab it.  She looks at Katie instead.

42 sec: I start moving slightly away from Katie.  The additional distance allows Lyra to function and to play.

49 sec:  I pull her back into Katie’s direction and she disengages to look at Katie again.

50 sec:  She is able to fetch in a direction away from Katie, but all the way back she is looking back and forth between the two of us.

1min, 2sec:  Lyra continues to orient with her head/front in the direction of Katie.

1 min, 14 sec: Note that Lyra is again able to engage if I increase distance from Katie.

1 min, 18 sec:  Lyra is beginning to relax.  She is playing with me (though tentatively) and maintains focus.  She is able to keep her rear end to Katie, which suggests much improvement in her comfort level.  While I can “feel” that she is not 100%, I also see that we’ve progressed from where the session started.

After this I stopped playing with Lyra and chatted with Katie for another five minutes before ending the session.  During this time, Lyra wandered around the yard, mostly sniffing.  She also walked around near us as we talked.  Katie never visited with her, but if she were to visit, this would have been a good time for it.  Then Lyra could make the association between staring camera people becoming  social people later in time.  I chose not to go this route because I prefer not to have new people interact with Lyra in my training area.

If I had been carrying food on my body, I would have given up the toy idea almost instantly, and I would have worked with the food.  But in real life, you get what you get, and you deal with it according to the circumstances as they are at that moment in time.  Hence, the interactions as shown on tape.   Hindsight is 20/20.

Holiday Celebrations and Dog Training

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My son’s school has begun preparations for their their annual holiday pageant.

Each year, dozens of smiling children sing a variety of holiday tunes for their adoring parents.  Except for my son.  He stands, frozen, no movement visible in his lips.

Each year I ask him the same question. “Why didn’t you sing?”

Each year, I get the same answer. “Dunno”.

“Dunno” is a pretty crappy answer coming from an articulate, intelligent child who is rarely at a loss for words or conversation.

Last year, I pledged to make it better.  I spent hours learning songs and singing with him.  I made sure he knew the words and all of the cute little hand gestures.  He was Prepared.

I attended the pageant with high hopes.  This time he would sing his little heart out and wiggle his hands in all the right places.

You probably see it coming….

He did not sing.  He did not wiggle.

After those many many hours, cheerfully working right along side of him, he did not participate.

When the pageant was over, I could not find my son.  Later that evening when he re-emerged, I asked him where he had gone.  He said he didn’t want to talk to me, because I would ask him why he didn’t sing.

Pause.

Let’s call this a  ”Shameful Parenting Moment”.

My son knew I was not asking the question expecting a logical answer.  It was a rebuke; my way of pointing out that I knew he hadn’t participated.  It was criticism couched as a question, and ten years of age is plenty old enough to figure that out.

Never mind that we actually had fun practicing together.  That we sang and were silly, and we had a really good time.

The issue was never the singing or the hand motions; the issue was his discomfort performing in front of groups.  He gets scared and anxious.  He can’t help that, and I’m sure if he had a choice, he’d have been born with the personality of a natural performer.

If it were important to me, I could have introduced him to very small and manageable doses of performance.  Instead of singing for hundreds, we’d do family.  Then family and friends.  And then maybe a few neighbors.  It’s possible that with time and maturity, he’d have the confidence and desire to perform for large groups. Or not.  Either way he is my son.   He is who he is; not always who I want him to be.

I abhor those soccer dads that scream and coach from the sidelines – but was I any different?  More subtle, yes, but the expression of dissaproval and “you should be able to do this” was the same.

A few of you are probably making the connection….

On occasion, I’ll have a dog training student attend a trial with a well prepared dog, and it doesn’t go very well.  We might express our dissapointment and wish it were different, but in the end it’s the dog who must feel able to perform.

We can make the dog work for our goals because we are bigger and stronger.  The dog cannot speak, so we can ignore her opinion.  We can ignore even the most extreme non-verbal expressions of unhappiness.

Or we can accept the dog that we have.

We can set a basic floor of comfort for the dog and abide by it.

We can have an agreeement, “I will do what I can to make this sport enjoyable.  I will not put you in  a position where you are unreasonably stressed or unhappy.”

We can take responsibility for making the dog ring ready by exposing her in small doses, over time, to those aspects of dog shows that are difficult.  We can go to training classes and work at appropriate distances.  We can learn about stress and fear, and create a plan that allows the dog to build confidence in herself and in her handler.  We can improve our relationship.

We can enter the ring with a dog that is clear on each exercise and as well prepared for the work and the environment as we can master.

What we can learn with our dogs, working through the journey that is competitive obedience, is pretty darned cool and interesting, regardless of the outcome.

In a week, the annual pageant will come around again.  My son knows the songs and the hand motions.  I enjoyed the hours spent practicing with him.  I also know that soon he will be a teenager, and there will be fewer opportunities.

I’m fortunate that last year he was able to speak to me, because this time, I was able to hear him.

Lyra – Four months

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Most of my training time with Lyra is really structured play – play that gets me the behaviors I want with maximum joy and energy.

There are also a few skills that are more easily mastered when the dog is calm.  For these, I use food as the reward.  Food leads to a thinking, clear head.  With Lyra, I work on these types of skills in small doses since her food drive is limited.

In this video, I’m showing her skill building work in the following areas:

1)      Pivots in “front” position.   I have her front feet on a Frisbee to help her – she knows that her feet must remain on the Frisbee above all else.   If I say “come” while I pivot, she’ll try and sit when I stop (I didn’t teach this but I think my husband did).  She is accurate enough in her pivots that I am allowing this behavior to emerge – I would suggest you avoid the sit until your dog is reasonably accurate on the pivots in front without them.  Look for a straight body when you stop moving – straight bodies with static front feet tend to end with straight, tucked sits.  Be very careful about your hand position when you pivot and when you reward – try and keep your hands out the picture so your puppy does not rely on your hands in front to understand what is expected here.  When you do reward, make sure your hand position reinforces the dog’s straight body position – normally your midline.  Alternate your reward hand.

2)      Pivots in” heel” position.  Again, I use the Frisbee to stabilize her front end. I have named this skill “get in” – pivot next to me while I move away from you.  Note that my choice of hand position for feeding reinforces a straight body.   I do not ask for a sit when we stop – that will come later.

3)      Positions – once again, that handy Frisbee is called into play.  Lyra is practicing her sit, down and stand commands.   I lure with my hand into the correct position.  The Frisbee is to keep her front feet steady; I want her to do any combination of positions without moving her front feet.  We have a long road ahead – I’d estimate that we’ve done these about 500 times, yet she seems to have relatively little concept that the words I’m using predict the hand cue.   I have chosen not to shape her positions because I am very particular about how they are completed – no movement of front end – and I do not have enough confidence in my shaping skills to believe  that I can get that result at this time.  I also do not delay very long between the verbal and the hand cue – I have found that if I delay she tends to start moving her front feet – my number one priority here is no front foot movement.

4)     Mark – while holding Lyra back, I toss a highly visible cookie (goldfish!) straight ahead with my right hand.  I then switch my hands so my right hand holds her ruff, and my left hand gives a signal on the side of her head to indicate where she should look. I then release her to the cookie.  This will give us a head start on the glove exercise and the go outs for Utility – my hand on the side of Lyra’s head will mean “look out there where I’m indicating”. Combined with the “I’m holding your ruff so go out with speed” cue, I hope to get a clean mark and a lot of speed going away.  Even with the goldfish, I can see she has trouble finding the food at a distance.

5)      To end the session, I transition her to play by throwing a toy for her final mark.

Lyra – 17 weeks

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Wow; almost four months old now!  Lyra is losing her baby teeth and her soft, furry wool.  I miss the wool.  The baby teeth…not so much.

When I brought Lyra home, I focused on her tug and retrieve skills.  Playing tug was easy since Lyra was born with talent in this area.  Retrieve went through phases; sometimes she would consistently retrieve objects back to me, and other times she preferred to own them by herself.

When Lyra became fairly consistent about both retrieving random objects and bringing them back, I started working hard on teaching her to drive back to me – with the same intensity I expect to see going away from me.  I’ve been delighted with her progress in this area, so much so that I had somewhat neglected her driving AWAY from me.

A little over a week ago, I started working harder on Lrya’s drive away from me.  You can see the first steps of that work in the post here:

http://denisefenzi.com/2011/11/23/lyra-16-weeks-starting-opposition-reflex/

Today I took stock of all of her play skills to date, and I taped this session:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRN3dIGFkDs

1)  I am very happy with her improvement in driving away and her opposition reflex.  She is comfortable with my grabbing her ruff, and she looks where I throw food or toys.  Next I’ll try to get that degree of drive towards a target or a dumbbell.

2)  I am very happy with her toy return. She comes back with speed, and she immediately jumps at my hands to get me to reingage.  She enjoys hanging from the toy, so I reward her fast, upward returns by grabbing the toy and briefly taking her off the ground.

3)  As a bonus, she now jumps at my hands and plays with me before we start training -whether or not I’m holding a toy.  That is huge progress, and suggests I may start attempting to play without toys again.  It’s possible she’s ready.  Until now, play without toys led to my becoming the toy; that was a painful result.  Now she can participate in a bit of personal play and a little work – even without a toy reward to focus on.

Nice session. I’m glad I taped it because I was super proud of her.

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